“Shanti, I think we need to get some more cat litter on the way home. You know, you’ll never beat my high score in Tetris. Look at all these people watching us, they think we’re saying sweet things to each other.”

Seriously, though, we were honored to be there and to be a part of it. Even I got a little choked up watching the ceremony and seeing the truth and depth in what you were saying to each other. It was evident even without hearing the words. Don’t feel obligated to share those vows with us, because you weren’t saying them for our benefit.

Again and again, congratulations. I can’t express how happy I am for you.